Have you ever watched one of those TV detective shows where a woman has been subject to years of abuse by her husband and then is accused of murder as a result of finally having had enough? Most often the question at hand is "why didn't she just leave?". Other times, you see a story about the homeless in New York, and you wonder, "why don't they just move somewhere else where they can get a job?"
Human nature is a very complex thing. We become attuned to our current situation, and often even if it is not the greatest in the world, we stay because it is safer that the outside world. Having just experienced five months of unemployment, I can assure you it is scary out there. I would much rather have stayed behind my desk, happy or sad. Why is that? Have you ever felt that way?
The question that starts this blog post asks what we fear the most. I believe for most of us, it is change! In fact, doctors tell us that the more change we experience, the more likely our health is to take a hit. Our physical, emotional and social characteristics are so set in current behavior that the new is difficult to incorporate in.
Now, think for a moment about the implications of this for wisdom. Wisdom is not just learning something new, but acting on it in some positive way. Otherwise it is just knowledge. The bible, for example is full of wisdom. However, the instructions describe the spiritual experience as being born again. Consider the implications of this impossible statement. As a child, we have no set behaviors. We are open to new learnings and adapt to teachings and experiences daily. A child will trust those who are teaching them to provide the right information and will accept it on faith, forming their world view from these teachings and experiences.
Using the above example as a basis, let's consider the possibilities for overcoming this fear of change. They are not very high. It requires a daily willingness to consider the new. It is an act of the will, which will then have to war against our human nature. Imagine the wife who is willing to consider the new, and have faith that there is something positive out there for her to experience. Perhaps she would be more willing to leave the bad situation.
Imagine you, willing to consider something new each day. What is there out there today that could rock your world if you would let it? Hey, talk to a democrat or republican, whichever you are not - and be open to their point of view! Talk to a Christian or a non-believer, and really listen to their point of view. Talk to a teenager or a senior citizen. At the end of the day, ask yourself: Were you open to anything at all that was shared with you... or are you afraid?
Try it and tell me how it goes!!!!!
